“The
proud father relayed the news over a candlestick-style telephone in
Agawam, Massachusetts, and beyond.
‘It’s twins! God Bless! Lil
has given birth to identical twin girls!’ “
(Decoding Darkness: The
Search for the Genetic Causes of Alzheimer’s Disease)
The
little girls, Julia and Agnes, blossomed, but a phantom was hidden
deep inside each of them, the genetic code that sentenced them to
early-onset Alzheimer’s disease.
Julie married her high-school sweetheart, John Noonan Jr .
The first of Julie’s ten children was born in 1942.
Julia loved to sing, enjoyed her children and filled their
house with the smell of baking.
In
the early 1960’s
Julia began forgetting. At
first the children found this amusing, and would tease their mom
about what she was forgetting.
She would often not follow
through with discipline, such as letting a child who was grounded go
out. The kids often
joked among themselves about her memory lapses.
By
1964, after giving birth to the tenth child of the Noonan brood,
Julia’s forgetfulness began to become worrisome.
“One day Julia forgot to pick up one of her children at
kindergarten. Five-year-old Julie, done up in coat and hat, had sat waiting
and waiting for her mother by the school door, but her mother never
appeared. Julia’s
lapses were becoming more pronounced”
(Decoding Darkness: The
Search for the Genetic Causes of Alzheimer’s Disease). In
1965, Julia’s personality began to change.
Once a woman who could manage with joy all the duties of a
busy home with several older children and three under the age of
seven, she was now very tearful, confused and depressed.
Her husband, the oldest children and a few close friends were
the first to notice these subtle changes. This
personality change and neglect of home and family affected all the
children in many different ways, but the common thread for all was
the confusion that engulfed their lives.
By
1967, Julia had significantly progressed to forgetting her
responsibilities as a homemaker, wife and mother.
Imagine knowing the responsibility of needing to feed your
children and not remembering where the pots and pans are located in
your own kitchen. Imagine also the adolescent who is ashamed of this
mother unable to fulfill her responsibilities or the pre-schooler
simply wondering where mom is. The children had no idea why she often forgot to cook
dinner, lost their father’s
paycheck, or even forgot the basic emotional needs of caring for her
five youngest children. Think about the emotional pain and agony the
many children felt living in this confusion.
”John
Noonan was in such turmoil over his wife’s unexplained behavior,
he had a hard time keeping his mind on his job as firefighter;
managing the household and ensuring that the children at home were
looked after was beyond him. The
very [three] youngest went to live with married siblings, and the
older ones at home began filling their mother’s shoes and raising
the others.” (Decoding
Darkness: The Search
for the Genetic Cause of Alzheimer’s Disease)
In
the spring and summer of 1967, Julia had two series of shock
treatments, yet her depression continued.
In December of 1967, at the age of 43, Julia Tatro Noonan was
diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease. With this diagnosis, came the
reason for her behavior, but not the end of the pain caused by it.
In
1978, after years in a nursing home, Julia died of complications of
end stage Alzheimer’s Disease. Her twin, Agnes also developed
Alzheimer’s Disease in the 1980’s and died from complications of
the disease. With
Julia’s death came a sense of relief, the struggle with
Alzheimer’s Disease was over.
“Whereas
Julie had understood so little about her illness, her ten children
knew its name, knew its damage, and had a dim sense that they were
genetically susceptible to their mother’s rare form of the
disease. (Decoding
Darkness: The Search
for the Genetic Causes of Alzheimer’s Disease)
Julia’s
children continued with their lives, raising families, running
businesses, establishing careers.
They thought that with her death they had left the nightmare
of Alzheimer’s Disease behind.
“Malcolm
– Julia’s sixth-born-remembers too clearly the June day in 1993
that he and his wife visited an older sister and her family at their
lakeside cottage in New Hampshire. Little about Fran – Malcolm’s fourty-four-year-old
sister—resembled their mother. …With an IQ over 150, she was
sharper than a tack, which is why Malcolm felt a fear rip through
him when, for the second time that day, Fran picked up the
blue-green embroidered bracelet off the hall table and wondered
aloud where it had come from, and her daughter had to tell her yet
again that she’d made it for Fran.
Later, Fran would ask a third time”
(Decoding
Darkness: The Search
for the Genetic Causes of Alzheimer’s Disease)
Gradually
history repeated itself. The
familiar and haunting empty look in Fran’s eyes reminded each
sibling of the same vacant stare that was received from their mother
as children. With Fran’s diagnosis came the stunning
realization that each sibling is at great risk for this disease.
Each sibling has a fifty- percent chance of contracting
Alzheimer’s Disease. Already
two siblings are diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease
and are in full time care facilities.
“A
grieving set in that would go ‘on and on.
We would find ourselves continually revisiting our losses,’
notes [older sister] Pat. … They were realizing that since there was no escape, they
wanted to mount an offensive. It
might have been different if theirs was the only generation facing
Alzheimer’s.” (Decoding Darkness:
The Search for the Genetic Causes of Alzheimer’s Disease)
The
knowledge that their twenty-two children and thirteen grandchildren,
with more on the way, are also at risk for this disease has
motivated them to find a cure.
The
Noonan family is involved in genetic research in as many ways as
possible, hoping their assistance will speed researchers in finding
a cure. They have also
spoken publicly to nursing homes, colleges and even before Congress.
The family has been featured on ABC’s 20/20 and the Leeza
Gibbons show, and is always working to raise awareness regarding
this terrible disease and to push for more research funds.
In
addition, the Noonan family has started and is actively involved in
Memory Ride, which produces a cycling event, proceeds of which go
towards Alzheimer’s Disease research.
One-hundred percent of funds raised by Memory Ride are
donated towards research. Operating
funds for the Memory Ride come from corporate donors.
As
tragic as this disease has become to the Noonan family, they try to
see it as they look at all of life, is the jar half full or half
empty? They say half full! They continue to put a name and face to the disease of
Alzheimer’s.
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